Have you ever heard the saying "You have to earn my trust"? Well, when it comes to love, love just trusts. Even when our hormones are telling us otherwise we must trust.
Has your spouse done something in the past to cause you to be less than trustworthy with them? Those seeds of distrust can sneak their way into this new marriage you are trying to build and keep you separated from the fruitful future. Seeds of doubt can cause underlying anger and resentment even when the other person isn't doing anything wrong in the present.
Trusting a spouse can be difficult but if you truly want to transform your marriage trust is a great way to get your marriage in the right direction. Forgive what has been done in the past and move towards the future with a clean slate. This will help to keep friction low and help you to look at your spouse with those puppy dog love eyes. When we forgive and trust our spouse, then our hearts can be opened to them more freely.
-Jessica
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